The Circle of Becoming: Self-Discovery •Becoming • Purpose

Let’s talk about it.

For years, we’ve been carrying the weight—physically, emotionally, generationally. We’ve been told to love our curves while also being shamed for them. We’ve been celebrated for being “thick,” but overlooked when it comes to conversations about real health. We’ve watched our mothers, aunties, and grandmothers struggle with weight-related issues, often accepting it as just a part of life.

But something is shifting.

More of us are waking up. More of us are saying, “No, I deserve to feel good in my body.” More of us are prioritizing our health—not for society, not for a man, but for ourselves.

The Real Talk on Weight & Black Women

We know the stats. Nearly 80% of Black women are considered overweight or obese (U.S. Department of Health and Human Services). Not because we don’t care, but because we’ve had to navigate life in survival mode. From stress eating to emotional trauma, to the food deserts in our communities, the odds have been stacked against us.

But let’s be real—we’re not victims. We’re breaking cycles every day.

How We’re Changing the Narrative

1. We’re Choosing Health Over Society’s Opinions
   For too long, we’ve been boxed in—either told we’re “too big” by Eurocentric beauty standards or that we should “just be happy” with our bodies no matter how we feel in them. Now, we’re making our own rules. Whether that means lifting weights, switching to a plant-based diet, or just drinking more water, we’re focusing on what makes us feel good, not just what looks good.
2. We’re Healing from Generational Trauma Around Food
   Let’s be real—food has always been love in our culture. Sunday dinners, soul food, big plates passed around with pride. But many of us are realizing we don’t have to give up our culture to be healthy. We’re finding balance, making small changes, and learning that food is fuel, not just comfort.
3. We’re Finding Our Own Fitness Lanes
   For a long time, fitness spaces didn’t feel like they were for us. But now? We’re taking up space. We’re joining running clubs like Black Girls Run, hitting the gym with our homegirls, trying yoga, lifting weights, and moving in ways that feel natural to us.
4. We’re Addressing Mental & Emotional Weight, Too
   Listen, sis—weight is not just physical. A lot of us are carrying stress, heartbreak, exhaustion, and childhood wounds in our bodies. And when we start unpacking that emotional weight? The physical weight starts shifting, too. More of us are getting therapy, setting boundaries, and choosing peace over people-pleasing.
5. We’re Doing It for Us, Not for Them
   This is probably the biggest shift. We’re not on this journey for a man’s approval or for society’s validation. We’re doing it so we can feel strong when we wake up in the morning. So we can chase our kids without getting out of breath. So we can live long, fulfilling lives.

Sis, You’re Not Alone

If you’re on this journey, know that you’re not by yourself. The movement is happening all around us. Whether you’re just starting or you’ve been on this path for a while, keep going. Take small steps. Show yourself grace. And remember, it’s not about being “perfect”—it’s about showing up for yourself.

So tell me, sis—what’s one thing you’re doing to take control of your health? Drop it in the comments. Let’s hold each other down.

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